Tom had a close companion named Lucas. Their friendship spanned nearly two decades. I first met Lucas about half a year after Tom and I began dating. They were almost always together, with Lucas often at our place, lending a hand to Tom with various tasks around the house.
Lucas faced challenges with substance use and battled frequent bouts of sadness. To help him, we welcomed him to stay with us whenever he needed a break from his struggles. However, despite our efforts, Lucas would eventually return to his own home, which was just a short walk away from individuals who tempted him with drugs.
One weekend, Lucas was particularly downcast, having lost his beloved grandmother. In his sorrow, he started drinking and using again, which only deepened his sense of despair. He began to believe that Tom was upset with him, which further weighed on his spirit. The night of his grandmother’s passing, Lucas called us, his voice trembling, and asked if we had a pair of formal trousers he could borrow. Then, through tears, he asked why Tom seemed angry with him.